Why men don't get published in dear Abby

[OceanMotion]

Dear Abby,

I've never written to you before, but I really need your advice on what could be a crucial decision.

I've suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me.

The usual signs... phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up. My wife has been going out with the girls a lot recently although when I ask their names she always says, "Just some friends from work, you don't know them."

I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the drive. Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife.

I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her.

I decided I was going to park my skiff next to the garage and then hide behind it so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home.

It was at that moment, crouching behind my skiff, that I noticed that the lower unit on my engine seemed to be leaking a little oil.

Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it back to the dealer?