We did a spring break trip about 3 or 4 years ago. Kids (both girls) would have been between 10&13. We agonized over flying/driving, getting a disney package or staying offsite, the extra hour of access when staying onsite, etc... Definitely information overload. Finally we just bit the bullet, found a hotel online at hotels.com and drove down the next morning.
Had no problems driving in and parking. What surprised us was that we liked Epcot and the Movie studio best. We bought the 4 day everything passes (don't recall the exact disney terminology - I do remember parting with 800+ bucks for 4 tickets at a ticket booth... OUCH). But it worked really well for us. We did multiple parks a couple times based on ride availability or just wanting to eat something else. Didn't miss the early hour too much - we figured out their ticket program to lock in our ride times for the biggies then worked around that schedule. That was really handy. Mostly we used their transportation between parks rather than going back out to the car.
Had no problems driving in and parking. What surprised us was that we liked Epcot and the Movie studio best. We bought the 4 day everything passes (don't recall the exact disney terminology - I do remember parting with 800+ bucks for 4 tickets at a ticket booth... OUCH). But it worked really well for us. We did multiple parks a couple times based on ride availability or just wanting to eat something else. Didn't miss the early hour too much - we figured out their ticket program to lock in our ride times for the biggies then worked around that schedule. That was really handy. Mostly we used their transportation between parks rather than going back out to the car.